Dunno about you, but I want to be Really Fucking Happy . If you're going to want something, why not want this?

You matter. Your thoughts, your creative expression? It matters. So many people think, “It’s all been done before. It doesn’t really matter, anyway. No one will notice if I don’t go after what I want, most.” Here’s the thing: you will notice. You’ve got to “get” that you matter and that your mark on the world is here for a purpose.

You may have quit any number of things, and therefore you think that you're lazy. The thing is, you're not lazy. You're just afraid. So here's what to do when you feel "lazy" : acknowledge that actually, you're afraid. It's the fear that makes you want to shut down, not some kind of inherent flaw.

It's been another year of full-on courageous living , and here's the official recap of my top 10 lessons learned.