This is a follow up to my last post on the courage of conviction after many readers reached out to me with their thoughts after reading it.

What I term boho perfectionism is the new standard to live up to that involves proclaiming that you're "messy" as you "live your dreams." But not everyone wants the same things, so what is it that you uniquely want?

We don't want to make decisions for one tiny-big reason: decisions feel final and when something feels final, we fear dealing with its consequences. This leads to the overwhelming exhaustion of indecision.

Separating feelings from facts is a very helpful critical thinking skill—it’s also a very helpful relationship skill. Separating feelings from facts allows us to define the boundaries of what is our personal truth, separate from another person’s personal truth. When we assume that what we feel is an absolute or objective truth? We spin out. Here’s how to stop letting feelings run you.