Saving your own life is an inside job (and here’s why that’s a good thing). The work is slow and subtle, but it’s happening all around you.

Are you a fit for coaching? Much is said about the importance of a coach having strong coaching skills, and not is much is said about a client needing to have effective clienting skills. Determining if you are a fit for coaching means looking at both sides.

A good coach, counselor, or therapist will piss you off just a bit. People have different ideas about what “support” looks like, but almost no one thinks that “support” looks like the person you’re working with smiling at you and saying, “Well, then--if you say so,” when you’re in the middle of sobbing (again) over your life experience.

When other people irritate us, they’re blowing our cover, exposing the places where we are up against the limits of our compassion. When people are blowing our cover, however? There’s an opportunity.