It is okay...I like reminding myself of this--remembering that wherever I'm at is fine, and wherever you're at is fine, too, as long as neither of us step out of the game of accepting ourselves and each other.

"Manifesting" has become one of those terms that I almost dislike--it's just so over-used, so patently misunderstood.

Yes, life is messy, but "this messy life" as an identity system doesn't leave much room for...the non-messy. Are you using disheveled as a credential?

Creating consistent habits relies on the loop of cue-routine-reward. To create consistent habits will require that you are aware of the habits that are already there, whether or not they truly work for you, and alternative behaviors that you'd like to choose so that those behaviors, over time, can become habits. That is the power of creating consistent habits.